Marriage Tuesday

here’s a little checklist for you to take inventory of what you are bringing to the table in your marriage…or what you intend to bring someday.   the bible speaks clearly that we are to actively get rid of the characteristics in our lives that are not consistent with the character of christ…and work hard to develop those attributes that best reflect the nature of god and the person of jesus.  paul puts it clearly in the following passage:

You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires;  to be made new in the attitude of your minds;  and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.  Ephesians 4:22-24

maybe today’s a good day to look in the mirror…

Put Off Put On
Lack of love Love
Judging Self-examination
Bitterness Tenderhearted
Unforgiving spirit Forgiving spirit
Pride Humility
Conceit Gentleness
Hatred Love or kindness
Gossip Speaking with praise
Lying Speaking truth
Profanity Building up
Thoughtless words Words of encouragement
Ingratitude Thankfulness
Impatience Patience
Murmuring Gratefulness
Complaining Contentment
Irritation to others Serving others
Jealousy Trust
Fighting Peacemaking
Losing temper Self-control
Complacency Diligence

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